[ misfits recognize misfits as always. the difference, he recognizes, is that he has someone who tends to both validate him and drag him (sometimes kicking and screaming) into discussions about what's bothering him and monitoring his mental health. nimona doesn't to the same extent, so he doesn't mind doing this.
he's using one hand to carefully hold her face while the other begins to work on cleaning the blood off, even if he seems to be thinking. ]
...people have a tendency to say things without really thinking about how they might sound to other people. [ is what he says first. ] I don't think anyone from our group will think it's wrong for you to feel a little bit of sympathy for Argalia. He was still your teammate, so obviously you've had a little more time to understand the places he's coming from. Everyone's really frustrated right now because of what's happened, and it probably doesn't sound fair that people are upset with him but appear less upset with Chiemi even though it's likely they both willingly acted to kill someone. People find it easier to write off Argalia because of how he portrayed himself as a villain. When a person creates a depiction of themselves they refuse to budge on, other people latch onto it because it's easier than trying to really sort through how they feel about stuff.
[ he lets that sit for a second while he works before he continues. ] Anyway...not understanding right away isn't the same as being upset with you. Give them time. It doesn't always feel like it, but most people tend to want to understand their friends as best as they can. As long as we bother letting them.
[she lets him work, eyes on the bed, listening like always.
it's so easy to write people off. to decide there's nothing good left. to not try. to see something as violent and horrible and not worth looking at ever again. and sometimes they're right, sometimes someone isn't worth trying for, but you never know unless you look.
she wonders if chiemi had been caught, if they would've been nearly as angry, but - that's different, isn't it? she probably didn't just do it because she could. nimona knows that.
she's quiet for a bit. and then:]
I like it here. [it's the best way she can express that she likes having a group of people who just accept what she is. she worries.]
... It's fine, though, he's dead, Argalia's dead. So... so nobody will think about it much after this.
[ there's a small noise of agreement, as if to say "i like it here too" because it's only been a week since they were all arrested but it kind of feels like they all got closer in varying degrees anyway. it felt like there were people they could rely on, a little.
but...there is still that. ]
I think you and I both know that isn't true. [ maybe it's not a lot of people. but there are always going to be people who think about the dead and the circumstances that led them there. ] You get that it's still fine for you to think about it after this, right? I don't think any of us expect you to get over it and move on right away.
[ it's about as good as it's going to get, so like a true heathen he just tosses the cloth elsewhere to deal later. ]
Probably not. [ he can agree to that. ] But if you need to talk about it I don't think any of them would say no either. Some of them are weirdly accepting of things.
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he's using one hand to carefully hold her face while the other begins to work on cleaning the blood off, even if he seems to be thinking. ]
...people have a tendency to say things without really thinking about how they might sound to other people. [ is what he says first. ] I don't think anyone from our group will think it's wrong for you to feel a little bit of sympathy for Argalia. He was still your teammate, so obviously you've had a little more time to understand the places he's coming from. Everyone's really frustrated right now because of what's happened, and it probably doesn't sound fair that people are upset with him but appear less upset with Chiemi even though it's likely they both willingly acted to kill someone. People find it easier to write off Argalia because of how he portrayed himself as a villain. When a person creates a depiction of themselves they refuse to budge on, other people latch onto it because it's easier than trying to really sort through how they feel about stuff.
[ he lets that sit for a second while he works before he continues. ] Anyway...not understanding right away isn't the same as being upset with you. Give them time. It doesn't always feel like it, but most people tend to want to understand their friends as best as they can. As long as we bother letting them.
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it's so easy to write people off. to decide there's nothing good left. to not try. to see something as violent and horrible and not worth looking at ever again. and sometimes they're right, sometimes someone isn't worth trying for, but you never know unless you look.
she wonders if chiemi had been caught, if they would've been nearly as angry, but - that's different, isn't it? she probably didn't just do it because she could. nimona knows that.
she's quiet for a bit. and then:]
I like it here. [it's the best way she can express that she likes having a group of people who just accept what she is. she worries.]
... It's fine, though, he's dead, Argalia's dead. So... so nobody will think about it much after this.
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but...there is still that. ]
I think you and I both know that isn't true. [ maybe it's not a lot of people. but there are always going to be people who think about the dead and the circumstances that led them there. ] You get that it's still fine for you to think about it after this, right? I don't think any of us expect you to get over it and move on right away.
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he's right, though, she does know that's not true. she reaches up to rub at her face a little, again. at least it's cleaner this time.]
Yeah, but none of you need to hear about it. [she mutters.]
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Probably not. [ he can agree to that. ] But if you need to talk about it I don't think any of them would say no either. Some of them are weirdly accepting of things.